In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who slept with somebody who made pig noises when referring to their body - though now wants a relationship
In Lalalaletmeexplain's hit column, readers ask for her expert advice on their own love, sex and relationship problems.
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It’s a pretty bad sign that during the first time you slept together he negged you and made nasty comments about your body. What are you supposed to do with the information that he likes less belly? Starve yourself, develop eating or exercising disorders, restrict your calories, run for hours at night? What are you supposed to do about it? And this is what worries me.
And that’s what worries me, he intentionally tried to make you feel ugly. Will he point out your belly every time you have sex? Will you now feel that you can’t relax in bed because you’ll be conscious of your very normal rolls? Will you be striving to have a flatter stomach for him? And if you do, then what? Once your belly is flat that won’t be the end. Something else will come up for him to bring you down with.
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