Dear Amy: I just don’t know how to get this lady to leave me alone.
Last June, a new employee transferred from a different unit. She was very upset the first couple of days. She also had a fear of reporting to her new supervisor because she thought she “looked mean.”She started bringing me breakfast in the morning. I asked her to stop several times, but she continued to bring me food gifts and other types of gifts, leaving them on my desk. This was completely unwanted.In December, she got promoted.
She drove all the way over to where I work to “say hi.” I told her I appreciated this, but that I needed to get back to work. She has sent me notes and letters where she said that I’m very fragile, saying that she knew that I needed her to take care of me.I’m a straight woman and not into her at all. I don’t need any more friends.
Dear Amy: My girlfriend and I have been together for three years. I really love her and we both feel that marriage is the logical next step. My problem is that I really worry about losing my freedom. This fear is really standing in the way of a proposal, and I wonder if this is normal.Marriage is illogical in many respects; for a lot of people, marriage is a truly exciting leap into the unknown. But it’s a leap they’re willing to take, because they’ll be holding hands when they jump.
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