Brother-in-law says, 'She told me she has had feelings for me ever since high school. She urged me not to tell my wife about this and I agreed.'
DEAR AMY: I grew up in the same town as “Carly,” the woman I later married. Her older sister “Susan” and I were in the same class in high school.
Her sister has broken all sorts of norms and violated some pretty basic boundaries, but the one you should be most concerned about is her insistence that you keep this a secret from your wife. I believe that the entire clan can recover from this and move forward , but this depends on the temperaments of the principal parties.
A lot of couples run into issues when they open a relationship as an attempt to fix underlying issues, or when one partner feels coerced into it. This letter writer describes their relationship as quite happy, and the couple sounds like they’re both interested in trying polyamory.
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