I want to apologize for that, but I don’t want to open the door to a relationship.
I did a bad thing – I ghosted a friend. The friendship made me uncomfortable. I thought he had romantic feelings for me, or maybe he just wanted more from the relationship than I did.
You’re not obligated to put yourself in a position that could harm you as recompense for an unkind act. So proceed with caution here – make a script with your therapist and figure out what your goals actually are. You don’t want to re-establish a connection; you just want to clear the air. By the way, when talking about your situation with Anna, she had a different read than I did; it’s worth considering:
He was initially issued this permit more than 10 years ago from his orthopedic surgeon, when he had hip replacement surgery. The permit is automatically reissued to him without the necessity of proving its continued need. He hasn’t done anything to dispel this, but I find this distasteful and makes me think less of him. I am a physician, and in my state , issuing handicap permits is highly regulated. Should I confront him on this?You should speak up for the sake of your friendship.
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