Dear Deidre: Spotting the signs your partner is cheating
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband makes out he’s holier than anyone at our church and yet I know he’s having sex with another parishioner.Yet since this new woman arrived, he’s become the worst — a sinner.I suspected something was wrong when he suddenly began to refuse to sleep in the same bed as me.Get in touch with the Dear Deidre teamHe’s always fallen asleep and snores much more himself.She’s single, mid 40s and seemed friendly, especially with the men.
Then one of my church friends came over one day and confided in me there was rumour going around that my husband was with this new woman.My whole world fell apart. How could he do this to me? I thought he was a good Christian. He now insists they’ve only slept together once and blames his cheating on our non-existent sex life.
As I’ve aged, I’ve found my sex drive has lowered, but whenever I asked my husband how he felt about this, he said it didn’t matter as he loves me.DEAR DEIDRE Your husband should have told you he was unhappy with the lack of intimacy in your relationship – only then could you have addressed the problem.You’ll both need to start talking through what is making you unhappy in your marriage and work towards the changes you both need.My support pack How Counselling Can Help has more information on this, and the one called Your Man Cheating On You? will help you think this through.
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