I’ve recently limited my time around her because of this, and now she is offended by that.
DEAR ANNIE: I have an elderly family member who constantly interrupts me. Not only does she interrupt when I’m talking to her, but she eavesdrops on my conversations with others and interrupts those, too. She has been doing this for decades, so I highly doubt it’s related to age. It’s extremely rude, and I’ve tried to kindly tell her many times. She doesn’t think that it’s wrong to behave this way -- says it’s just part of having a conversation and continues to interrupt me.
I would rather avoid her as much as possible than continue to deal with her lack of manners. She sees me as the “bad guy” now, still continues to interrupt and thinks she has done nothing wrong. I love her, but I can’t deal with it anymore. Help! -- Constantly Interrupted DEAR CONSTANTLY INTERRUPTED: Since direct conversation hasn’t led to any change, it might be helpful to adjust. When she interrupts, reassert your boundaries by saying something like, “I was still finishing my thought. Please let me finish.” Consistency is key here. It sends a clear message that you expect your boundaries to be respected.
Additionally, consider involving other family members in a gentle way. Sometimes, having the same message echoed by several people can help the person see that their behavior is more than just a minor irritation.My car insurance went up 17% but I have no tickets or accidents, man says.
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