There’s always one friend you get on best with, so why not sit down with her and have a heart to heart?
Dear Coleen My confidence is so low that I’ve pulled myself from a group of friends I’ve known for more than 30 years. I feel that one friend in particular is looking at me as “the fat one”.My friends are all skinny, so when we’re having photos taken, I go at the back. They say they love me but I feel they don’t and just say it.
keeps me thinking positively, especially when dealing with palliative care and MND, dementia and Parkinson’s patients. But I get home after a nine-hour shift and go right back to feeling anxious again.celebration planned with my friends – a night away, which I’ve paid for – and don’t know whether to go or not.Coleen says Well, this friend sounds insensitive and dismissive but maybe she’s hurt you left the group, so she’s lashing out a bit.
You’ve obviously known them for a long time and if they’re good friends, they will listen and support you through it.
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