He cheated on me decades ago and this is bringing up all those old feelings again
My marriage has been up and down over the years. When we were quite newly married, I discovered my husband was having an affair, but our daughter was only a few months old at the time, so I told him I was prepared to forget it if he ended things with the other woman and never lied to me again.
I don’t think anything is going on beyond friendship and a bit of flirting from his side, but I feel diminished and helpless again, like I did when I was in my 20s.Top news stories today Coleen says I think you have to be honest and tell him exactly what you’ve told me. This is the thing about losing trust in someone – you can move on and carry on for years and then something triggers feelings of insecurity.
It’s down to him to make you feel different and if that means finding another cycling group to join, then that’s what you have to do.
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