I really fancy this guy but don't know how to make the next move
Dear Coleen I’m a woman in my 30s and haven’t had much luck in relationships. I always seem to choose the wrong guys, so I don’t really trust my radar. But I’ve been going to an Italian language class once a week since last September and there’s a guy there I really like.
However, I’m starting to think about him all the time and literally count down the days until the class comes around again. I’m sure this isn’t healthy! Also, I have no idea if he’s married or dating someone.I’m so bad at all this and really need some guidance. I don’t really trust my judgment when it comes to things like this after getting it so wrong in the past.Top news stories today Coleen says Here’s what I think, you need to get to know him more on a friend level, so you can find out more about him and what his circumstances are before diving in to ask him out.
And if you find out he is single, that’s your chance to say, casually: “Ah, we should grab a coffee one day.” Also, don’t get hung up on having bad judgment – if your radar is off, it’s not the end of the world. Move on. But if you want to be confident, then ask those questions first.
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