Dear Deidre: Cheating and can you get over it
DEAR DEIDRE: MY best friend took me in when my boyfriend jilted me – and I repaid the favour by having sex with her husband.I’ve known my friend since school. We’re both 45 and her husband is 50.I met my boyfriend at work, and we were planning our wedding when he turned around and said it was over.I spent the first week moping in her spare bedroom. Then my friend, her husband and I began spending evenings together cooking or watching TV.
The flirting started slowly — he would press his leg against mine on the sofa or let his hand linger when he passed me a drink.We started making dinner and, before I knew what was happening, he’d pressed me up against the fridge and was running his hands all over me.We had sex on the floor then went upstairs for more. It was the best sex of my life. He spent hours exploring my body and made me feel beautiful. I couldn’t get enough.Soon, we were grabbing any chance to have sex.
I’ve now moved into my own place and he regularly drops in to “help with DIY”. We end up making love all over my flat. I’m hooked on him and want him all to myself. But he refuses to leave my friend, saying she doesn’t deserve to be hurt.Your “soulmate” wouldn’t seduce you in the kitchen while his wife visited her mum.He saw that your self-esteem was in pieces, so he swooped. Now he’s loving having two women on the go.Even if he did, would you want him? He’s shown he can’t be trusted.My support pack Your Lover Not Free? will help you break out of this relationship.
Then, focus on finding a new man who’s free for a relationship. And work on rebuilding your self-confidence.Get in touch with the Dear Deidre teamFill out and submit our easy-to-use andFacebook page or email us at:
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