'I love my gay partner but I still look at porn and find guys on dating apps'
For the very first time I can just be myself and not have to pretend. My parents are homophobic and I haven’t dared tell them I’m gay.
I’m 25 and my partner is 36. Everything’s great – except for a couple of things. The first is that I’ve never climaxed with him, but the next bit is worse. I am deeply in love but I still look at porn and chat to guys on dating apps. I’ve even met up with a couple of them.Popular Dear Deidre problemsSEX WITH SISTERMy girl's wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I'm disgusted with myselfMore, more, more!Family are furious over my hot sex with brother's sister in lawBlackmailedLove my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with herTOUGH CHOICEYes, that could happen.
Your problems climaxing with your partner and being faithful to him could be down to your upbringing – the feeling that committing to a gay relationship is wrong.
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