DEAR DEIDRE: My wife’s lover just uses her and instead of being angry about her affair I can’t help but worry about her. We’ve been married for 12 years.
Things were fine between us until I fell from some scaffolding at work six years ago.
I broke my back and had to learn to walk again. When you’ve been an active man who played football with his kids, it wasn’t easy to accept. I got depressed and had anxiety. I wasn’t easy to live with. I felt permanently frustrated and still have panic attacks due to PTSD.life stopped immediately and my wife really missed it. She’s always looked after herself and now works on reception in a gym.I knew things weren’t great and then she confessed to having feelings for this guy. Now she’s asked for aEvery problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.
It would only reinforce anyone’s suspicion you are jealous, and by the sound of it wouldn’t encourage your wife to stay anyway. Better to talk to your wife and tell her your concerns. After that, it is up to her to decide whether she takes on board your perspective.A good therapist will help you process these huge life changes. My Counselling support pack explains more.
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