I suspected my wife was cheating but never dreamed she would have an affair with a woman

Dear Deidre: Cheating and can you get over it

Although I suspected she was cheating, I didn’t know she was a lesbian. I’m devastated.Over the past few years, since the pandemic, our relationship has been difficult.

When I tried to talk to her about it, she said it was normal after so long together. In retrospect, I think that was just an excuse.Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.I had my suspicions when she started going out a lot in the evenings and being cagey with her phone.I put up with it for months until, one night, I decided to follow her into town. I felt ridiculous and hoped I was wrong, that she was just meeting some friends.

I’m avoiding her now because I don’t know what to say. I feel like I don’t know who she is any more and that my whole marriage was a lie.Catching your wife cheating, especially when you had no idea she liked women, has left you reeling. But sexuality isn’t black and white. It doesn’t mean she’s never been interested in you and, of course, doesn’t excuse the fact she’s cheated on you.

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