A long-time partner talks dirty and uses other women’s names during sex, at the request of the writer. The writer explores the underlying reasons for her unconventional sex practices, including a history of abuse, and the complexity of her sexual desires and relationships.
DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner talks dirty to me and uses other women’s names when we have sex, at my request. We have been together for 21 years and I’ve always looked to spice things up. I’ve had several affairs and am currently sexting and exchanging explicit videos with a man who lives down my street. It’s only a matter of time before our relationship becomes a full-blown affair. I’m 43 and my partner is 45.
Shouldn’t I have settled down by now? Why am I always looking for dangerous encounters? To begin with he refused my request, but when I persuaded him to picture other women he was attracted to, he got into it. He started calling me Margot because he has a real thing for Margot Robbie, and moved on to Emily (model, Emily Ratajkowski is another of his crushes). So far he’s stuck to friends of friends and I’m not sure how I’ll feel if he gets closer to home but I haven’t felt jealousy as yet. I was sexually abused by a family member in my early teens, has this caused my warped approach to sex
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