Dear Deidre: Spotting the signs your partner is cheating
DEAR DEIDRE: Discovering my partner had cheated on me while I was pregnant three years ago was crushing.
I’ve tried hard to put it behind me but whenever I feel unsure or we argue, my mind returns to that infidelity.I’m 29 and my partner’s 31. We’ve been together for four years.But then I noticed he was increasingly secretive with his phone.Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.I took a quick look at his emails when he went out for a cigarette andI tried to forgive him for the sake of our son but he regularly accuses me of being weak when I ask for reassurance.
Don’t take him back unless he commits to therapy so he can start to understand how his behaviour impacts on you.If he won’t seek help, or show he wants to change, as hard as it will be initially, you’ll be happier and more secure if you start to plan for separate lives. He has a financial responsibility for his child. For more guidance, go to gov.uk/child-maintenance-service.
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