Hi all, Apologies in advance, this is going to be a long read - but I am incredibly grateful for any views and advice
Apologies in advance, this is going to be a long read - but I am incredibly grateful for any views and advice given!
As I was working with this lady, I made desperate attempts to move to a different location in the business altogether. This was rejected many times and I raised multiple cases with the HR department explaining that I urgently needed to move. I eventually had this finalised in the late summer . Finally I was at peace, in a safe place of work and getting ready to give birth in the winter.
Me and my BD are trying to see if things work for the two of us, but he refuses to tell her about us as he says she will make it hell for him seeing the children he shares with her. Since then we are back to not speaking again as I am aware she has said some incredibly nasty things about my child . She has also turned up to my house later in the evening to see whether BD is at mine. All in all just extreme behaviour.
Is there anything that can be done to help this situation? Mediation was refused by her, and he doesn’t want to take her to court.Alice, you deserve better. He is keeping you and your child secret, its not a proper relationship as he seems to only worry about himself and not the toll it takes on you and your child.
He keep your initial relationsip a secret, you got oregnant and he wanted you to get ride if it because it wasn't convenient for him and it would out his activities. To be honest I suspect he told your ex you were a one night stand. Me and my BD are trying to see if things work for the two of us, but he refuses to tell her about us as he says she will make it hell for him seeing the children he shares with her.
This woman isn't going to trust either of you whilst you are lying. And why is he doing this to you, sorry but your description of him shows major red flags and its just not a good environment to bring a child up in and it must be playing havoc with your self confidence. I get the other womans stance.
He needs to go public with the relationship, take ownership and only then, the other woman, may over time alliow some relationship between the siblings and if I was her I would be very wary of the situation. He's told a pack of lies to his ex to paint you as the bad guy and your poor innocent child is receiving hatred.
I'm unclear from the last part whether you are back together or not, but I wouldn't consider being a partner of someone who once sent me threatening and abusive messages because you had decided to continue with a pregnancy. I would make sure that you have as many safeguards in place as possible just in case.
My child is still yet to meet their half siblings, and the older children have no knowledge of their now one year old sibling, despite this all being known by all parties for over a year. im not saying he is a full narcicist but the traits are there being with someone with those traits kills your soul. Believe me I’ve been there.Part 2!
My child is still yet to meet their half siblings, and the older children have no knowledge of their now one year old sibling, despite this all being known by all parties for over a year.
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