A woman writes to Dear Deidre seeking advice on her husband's inappropriate friendship with a woman who has given him lap dances and lingerie. The woman suspects an affair despite her husband's claims of platonic friendship and his current unemployment-related anxiety.
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband accuses me of being jealous if I question his dodgy friendship with a real tease.
I’m so uncomfortable about their supposed platonic relationship but he dismisses me, saying he can be friends with whoever he wants.This so-called friend has given him lap dances and he has bought her lingerie in the past.They have eaten out and attended gigs together.My husband and I are in a kink relationship but we are supposed to be monogamous, it isn’t an open relationship.Still, I caught him out a year ago. My gut instinct told me he was up to something and I checked his phone.
This mutual friend confided in me that this woman had been boasting about luring a married man away from his wife.I don’t understand how she feels this is OK when she knows how I feel.Whether you are in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship, good communication is key.Without trust your relationship is under serious threat and he needs to be honest with you for any hope of a future.
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